“It can be hard to forgive and let go but it’s important to remember that harbouring the resentment and holding a grudge can hurt you even more. The word “forgive” really means to give something up for yourself not for them.”
Wanted to share this with you.
Recently I was talking about revenge. Revenge is such a nasty thing, as it hurts you more than the one you want to hurt… Just try to forgive, to let go of your feelings. Most likely, the other person is unaware of your actions, your feelings and of you letting things go. You only will harm yourself.
By forgiving someone it is not about giving your approval to misbehaviour of someone else, it simply means releasing yourself from his issues and giving them back to the other one.
You’ll save some energy. Spend it with love.
Hans de Gans