Never try to look in other people’s hearts,
and try to feel another’s feelings.
Never judge the actions of another human being.
You are you, you are not them. You only can feel for yourself.
Your feelings. Not theirs…
Just let go and let life live.
So please remember, never to pronounce a verdict about a life that is not yours.
–Hans de Gans–
Just a simple message. Because, how can you ever judge without having seen the complete picture? As posted aside, a leo of stone… Can you see the leo? Can you see where it is, who made it? Can you see how big it is? Can you see what side you’re looking at? No… I would bet you even cannot see the leo in it. So… You can only see what you can see. But is your view the complete picture? Is it reality? Your judgement will be as large as your view. And, when another’s feelings are concerend, it will be worthless for ever. You cannot feel for another. That is simple. You can’t.
If you judge, and I know you will, as people always do, please consider, it is only your own judgement what tells you something. It tells something about your life and your feelings. So please do not shout out your conviction. It may harm someone innocent. And, as others only can see the part of the leo in your words, in some, unpredictive way it might be possible that your own words may also harm you…
Just be gentle. Be sensible. Be empathic.
And sometimes please try to remain silent for a while.
So much love, Hans de Gans. “The Goose”